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Cara Helene's avatar

Thank you for saying this - it is definitely one I have, and still struggle with. I’ve been rooting out the programming that says I need to capture and share everything online to “build credibility” as the current marketing model says (which is just the wolf of patriarchy in sheep’s clothing).

Giving myself permission to stop living my life and work through the lens of “selling credibility” has brought a lot more peace and space to my life.

And I agree - creative women in particular were meant to work in community, not lone wolf it (hello, patriarchy separation again). We can create distributive models of work that allow us all space to receive, create, and rest.

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Lisa Tea's avatar

Thanks for this important reminder, Kathryn -- And good for you for supporting yourself as a creative/artist for such a long period of time. I don't subscribe to the "starving artist" mentality but, at the same time, I also don't shame myself or anyone else for being realistic about the need to pay bills and want a life and a future that is sustainable.

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